From: Pussy is Not the Greatest Gift You Can Give a Man

I sleep with a man for no other reason then I want to. It’s not any more complicated than that. I’m not fretting over when is a good time to sleep with a man. I’m not worrying on whether he will call me the next day. My sexual activity is solely based on what I want and when I want it.

Some might call me a ho.

I call me enlightened.

From the time we’re little girls us ladies get the message that out goodies are a gift to bestowed upon some deserving man. The problem with this message is that it sets up a market economy for pussy. Instead of sex being about your pleasure it solely becomes about someone else’s pleasure and desire. Never in any of the conversations most young girls receive about sex is their pleasure, needs and desire ever mentioned. Our sex is not our own. It’s too be guarded by family (mother and father) and then placed in our ownership until we give it to someone else.

Really?

Am I the only one who thinks that’s really fucked up?

So with the message being our goodies are precious and the sum of our worth, women start bargaining with their lady parts. If he does x, y and z, then I will give some. Oh he seems like a really nice guy, let me give him sum. Oh he’s given me this gold ring…he’s worthy of getting some now. Not only that, but this message of pussy as “the greatest gift” sets up a woman to be judged by how often she’s given it away.

I implore you to read the entire article:Pussy is Not the Greatest Gift You Can Give a Man